I have been grateful for many of my friends rallying around me during my tribulation period. But a couple of friends who were truly dear to me did not come through for me. I tried to focus on the kind support of my friends, but I cannot ignore the resentment toward them forming inside me.
There are some tips to deal with resentment.
Some say that I should focus on the good things about the person to whom I feel resentment. I should not expect how they behave toward you. I should be grateful for what I have. I understand these points, but it’s easier said than done.
What works for me is to be grateful and happy with what I have. I empathize with what I can do for my friends rather than what they can do for me. That thought empowers me to be a better person for my friends. Learn to let go of the resentment..
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